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    Storm brews online over Malaysian student’s ‘gay marriage’

    By Yow Hong Chieh

    KUALA LUMPUR, Dec 20 — The reported “gay marriage” between a Malaysian and his lover in Ireland has triggered outrage online, with one Facebook group urging he be brought home to be “saved”.

    The controversy erupted after pictures taken at Ariff Alfian Rosli’s same-sex civil union surfaced on the internet last week, three years after the University College Dublin medical student was reported missing by his family.

    In the photos, the 28-year-old could be seen wearing a black baju Melayu with kain samping while his partner — known only as Jonathan — wore a black tuxedo and green tie.

    Local criticism of the same-sex union has been swift and harsh, with mainly Muslim users attacking Ariff Alfian on Twitter for straying from Islam and dishonouring his family.

    “Ariff Alfian Rosli is a disgrace! Rot in hell!” user @DTOTHEZAK wrote on the popular micro-blogging site.

    Another user, @shkyla, wrote: “Looking at those wedding pictures of Ariff Alfian, makes me want to vomit. Blergh, disgusting.”

    Muslim groups have also been quick to condemn Ariff Alfian, with the Kepong Islamic Youth Organisation (PBIK) lodging a police report yesterday over his alleged failure to adhere to Malaysia’s Islamic laws.

    Other critics have taken a different tack, preferring instead to “rehabilitate” what they saw as a Muslim who had strayed far from the teachings of Islam.

    This includes the Facebook group, “The Campaign to Bring Ariff Alfian Rosli Home to Malaysia to Save His Faith”, which was set up on Saturday.

    The campaign’s description of its goal reads: “As Malaysians, Malays and Muslims, other than condemning and cursing, we also have the alternative to support Ariff Alfian’s return to Malaysia so his faith can be restored to the true and noble path.”

    As of 4.30pm today, the group had just over 170 members.

    The Prime Minister’s Office has also pledged to investigate the matter, and an Umno official is expected to arrive in Dublin later this week to convince Ariff Alfian to return home.

    Ariff Alfian, who left for Dublin eight years ago on a Petronas scholarship, has declined to say if he is involved in a civil partnership or a same-sex relationship.

    “I feel I have been inadvertently thrust into the public eye,” the Irish Times quoted him as saying today.

    “I just want to get by without upsetting anyone or causing any trouble. My overriding concern is for my family.”

    He also denied claims he had converted out of Islam, stressing that his faith was unshaken and that he would remain a Muslim until the day he dies.

    Ariff Alfian added that he had not “gone missing”, as both Irish and Malaysian authorities have been aware for several years that he was legally residing there.

    He said he was in regular contact with most of his family but admitted he has not spoken to his father, retired naval officer Rosli Haron, since they fell out in 2009.

    Petronas, which stopped sponsoring Ariff Alfian in 2009, is reportedly demanding repayment for the RM890,000 it paid for his education in Ireland.

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    • Deeban R.b  •  5 months ago
      Rather than sponsoring students for studies in overseas, PETRONAS should built few Universities and offer local students to study here. By doing this, PETRONAS will be able to sponsor more students. This also will help our currency from going out of the country. Moreover this will benefit the parents as well where they can closely look after their children.
      • Kamar Md.idris 5 months ago
        good idea!
      • Matthew 5 months ago
        Right...send them the Islam country instead. I beg the cost more less.
      • Xyz 5 months ago
        U r right!
    • farah  •  5 months ago
      The only thing I'm upset is the unpaid loan. would be used by others who need it more!
      • eddy 5 months ago
        hi farah,, I totally agree wit u... Wise people think alike !!! Any way,, i guess we should leave individual sexual preference alone... Nobody can tell for sure why things are such,,, It could happen to us,,to our family members,even to our children and wat can we do about it,,, ???? guess nothing much ,rite... !!! But if we can cum to terms wit reality and learn to accept people for wat they are than i guess that will do good for everybody... Why are people making so much noise about it,,, They should stop for a while and think about wats going on in his life and how is family feeling etc...I m sure its not that wat they wish they wan in life rather they are born to be in that way,,wit that feeling etc,,, But still they are human...... its sad to hear wat these inconsiderable are saying,,,, wonder wat they will say if its their family member.... Remember... Wat goes around will cum around......
      • Iqbal Hakim 5 months ago
        habits is nurtured, not a nature
      • AimantrA 5 months ago
        this is what happens when people think about money and religion anymore..you should be ashamed if you are a muslim, this is not just about unpaid loan, but moral values in the name of islam..it has been tarnished badly..
    • wallacethe5  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      I don't give two cents or a piece of my mind if he is gay or not,BUT HE BETTER PAY BACK THE LOAN!!!!!!

      WHAT YOU DO THERE ARIFF? USE THE LOAN AND GO TO NIGHT CLUBS?
      • Ferina 5 months ago
        yes, better kick his ass.. bullshit! pay back the loan
      • John 4 months ago
        yup yup..u defaulters are the reason current and future generations suffer to get loans..
    • what the ****  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      By the way who is this guy...what has he contributed to the country, who cares whether he marries a man or a donkey...just make sure he pays back....its all our hard earned money.
    • NEVER  •  5 months ago
      Petronas, which stopped sponsoring Ariff Alfian in 2009, is reportedly demanding repayment for the RM890,000 it paid for his education in Ireland...........so many melayu are so poor in M'sia,,,,yet Government give about 1Million RM to just one person,,,,ca petronas show all malaysian Arifin's STPM results?why so many clever student in malaysia didn't get it?

      ..
      • mohinder 5 months ago
        He must be an UMNO crony, thats why
    • nudin  •  Hong Kong, Hong Kong  •  5 months ago
      this guy was not able to pay RM890,000 to Petronas so getting married with Ireland guy can help him to stay longer in that country.
    • pancolekhangek  •  5 months ago
      We have a lot of problems here. Homelessness, drug addicts, snatch thieves, throwing away new born babies, corrupted politicians and government officers and the ever rising cost of living. Leave him alone. If he wants to join the sutu adikra sangam that's his right. After all he is in Ireland.
    • SURGA NERAKA  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      PETRONAS SHOULD GIVE RM890,000 TO EACH AND ALL MALAYSIAN SO THEY CAN BECOME INSTANT MILLIONAIRE AND NO NEED TO STUDY AND WORK, JUST SIT AND GOYANG KAKI.
    • Conan  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      Who the hell cares to whom this guy is married to..important thing is take back the loan money and give it to somebody else who really deserve it. I think there are many other issues in the country that needs attention rather than talking and worrying bout this donkey who does not care bout anybody, even his own family.
    • Emeka Cute  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      Ariffs behaviour reflects malaysian people because i believe he has been into homosexuality before he got a grant to study abroad.So all these whinning and sucking from ya all are just futile.
    • rob21  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      Kepong Islamic Youth Organisation (PBIK) lodging a police report yesterday over his alleged failure to adhere to Malaysia’s Islamic laws..........here we go again. religion + politics (the only religion with political power in this world).
    • Mohd Hanif  •  5 months ago
      ni satu kes satu dunia boleh nampak, tapi tau tak suadara saudari di tanah air kita ni sendiri ada berapa ratus ribu pasangan melayu seperti ni. mereka adakan hubungan seks sesama, tinggal bersama iaitu seperti suami isteri tapi mereka tak isthiarkan perkawainan tu aje. apakah jabatan2 tertentu buat pada mereka tapi di tv kita asik sibuk menunjuk polis sitar pelacur kena tangkap kat sana kat sini. bagi saya kes gay melayu lebih penting dari kes pelacur dengan ni kita boleh jaga ke sucian agama islam dan melayu dan saya boleh ingatkan gay melayu lebih ramai dari bangsa lain ....... buka la mata dan tengokla di sekitaran kita dulu ......... apa yang kita boleh buat
    • Shadow  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      dia ni baru sorang...rata-rata wartawan hiburan malaysia kebanyakan nya gay. perangai lagi mcm sial...tapi tak kena apa2 pun.
    • Unlimited Sensitive Issue  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      Sincerely said all Malays are terrorist sincerely said all Indians are worst than Bangladesh if only Bangladeshi are born Malaysian. But why some have yet to create terrorism from blacks, it's because they have not known the knee jerking point of pains......Revarty. . If u look at africa - middle east- india - bangladesh - indonesia - thailand - vietnam - malaysia - singapore - china - korea - japan.......what did u saw ? Evolutionary tree right ? O.k. so semua perempuan - perempuan melayus GIAN lelaki Cino. Yup like always .... the truth. Not reality are bullshit. A piece of cover up.
      Law = crime + justice2
      Do u know that King of Beggars can just barge into Bank for example RHB and rob at public overview with a truck loads of money and the police will just open his patrol car door and chauffeur him and his accomplice for his get away ?
      Anybody belief in : E=mc2
      To prevent evil, society can’t be silent. When evil is observed it must be confronted and opposed. Albert Einstein said “The world is too dangerous to live in – not because of the people who do evil, but because of the people who sit and let it happen.”
      Crime = political + injustice news2
      Because " to the poor, money is everything " " to the rich, money makes money " " to the wealthy, power is money " " to the King of Beggars, flesh is more powerful than steel "
      All malays r terrorist that is why malay/s must be islam to be tame. Even that they are potential terrorist as well. EVIL EQUALS MAD AND CRIMINAL MENTALITIES.
    • Uche  •  Melbourne, Australia  •  5 months ago
      Malaysia should be honest to themselves. Why will they abuse Ariff Alfian Rosli’s ? when all corners of Malaysia is openly full of gays rolling the street without police or anyone be against them.. Why now will they want to portray malaysia as if it clean country.....I has been to kuala lumpur, burkit bintang and pudu where you see gays? it surprisely why will they turn against this guy now? Hopefull is not jealous or seeking media attention... Clearly I don't support gay and same sex marriage is attact to human nature.
    • dwin  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      Awesomedude.....................awas dengan nama penulis ini...dia berlagak pandai dalam segenap segi ....DIA GAY dan bukan orang islam
    • Roni  •  Kuching, Sarawak  •  5 months ago
      ..." Love is Blind.."
      Don't judge others...
      Peace
    • Callian  •  Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur  •  5 months ago
      he got a life and he found the person he loves.. regardless what religion he is in, he is still a human.. and to love is a human-right not religion-right.. I am proud to see that he is brave to pursue his true love and at the same time paying respect to his religion.. I repeat: he is a HUMAN!
    • Matthew  •  Nelson, New Zealand  •  5 months ago
      The pathetic thing is,,,majority of the muslim who cursed the guy here,,,they themselves either drink alcohol or had premarital sex...And yet they come out loud to condemn this guy as if they are the holy one...Pathetic little creature...
    • penjaja melayu  •  5 months ago
      nin la akibatnya jika mengutamakan kebendaan duniawi dan mengamal sosial bebas... tapi tidak mencari agama sebagai begangan hidup .. sejarah silam Nabi Lut akan kembali .. dan akhirnya Tuhan akan melaknakan bumi bertuah ini ..

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